By
MEGAN SCOTT
NEW YORK (AP) — For some jobs, danger comes
with the territory.
Trees fall on loggers. Pilots crash. Fishermen
drown. Roofers fall.
But there’s one hazardous job that isn’t
in the Labor Department’s list of the 10 most dangerous
professions in America: exotic dancing.
It’s a profession with no training manual,
no safety instructions, no check-in system, sometimes no
bodyguards, most likely no boss encouraging employees to take
self-defense classes. Even in a strip club, where there are
several bouncers around the stage, who’s to say a woman
won’t be attacked when she is in a private “VIP room”?
“When we go out to do private parties,
whether we’re sent by an escort agency or not, when you
don’t know somebody, you’re at risk of walking into a
dangerous situation,” says Robyn Few, a former prostitute and
exotic dancer who is now director of the Sex Workers Outreach
Project-USA. “Even in a strip club, there is an element of
danger when we lock ourselves in a room; we’re at risk of
being manhandled, sexually assaulted.”
Some people would say a stripper going into a
stranger’s home alone to bare it all for groups of
intoxicated, rowdy men is like a woman walking down a dark alley
alone at 2 a.m. You don’t do it. But for strippers, this is
how they earn their living -- for some, as much as $3,000 for a
night’s work -- and many are willing to give money priority
over safety.
Research shows strippers make up a
disproportionate share of rape victims, says Mary Anne Layden, a
psychotherapist who counsels strippers, prostitutes and sex
offenders. She says when a stripper allows a man to invade her
visually, she inadvertently sends the message that it is OK to
do physically.
Kelly Holsopple, a former stripper, conducted
a survey where she interviewed 18 strippers about strip club
violence. Three of them said they’d had a customer force them
to have intercourse. Five had had a customer grab their breasts
at least once a day, and 13 had been punched or kicked by men
associated with the club. More than half of the 18 had had
customers follow them home.
“Here’s a work environment that produces
those types of experiences,” says Layden. “How many women do
you know who are willing to work in jobs where they are slapped,
bitten, called ‘cunt’ and ’whore’? Think about it. Strip
clubs have bodyguards. The reason you have a bodyguard is
because the activity produces violence.”
asap spoke to several former and current
strippers who reported some harrowing experiences: going to a
job alone in the middle of nowhere; being taunted and never
getting paid after performing for hours; being doused by a man
with champagne, while his friends cheered; going through an
agency that promised to provide a bouncer, and then ending up
either with no bouncer or a bouncer that cost them half their
check.
“I had to learn the hard way,” says
Jenna Jasmine. “One
time I went to a party by myself and I did many things wrong.
One: I was under the influence of marijuana. Two: I didn’t
take a driver. And number three: I didn’t get paid first.
Those are the things I have added to my absolute mandatory
safety requirements.”
THE HOME vs. THE CLUB
The potential dangers of stripping have been
playing out in the national media, with three white Duke
University lacrosse players facing charges of raping a black
exotic dancer who was hired to perform at a team party. The
stripper, a 28-year-old mother of two and college student, told
police she was dragged into a bathroom, where she was raped,
beaten and choked for about 30 minutes. A second dancer says the
men were hurling racial epithets as she and the accuser left.
Attorneys for the players say their clients
are innocent.
Whether or not a crime was committed, several
strippers say the case speaks to a glaring problem with the sex
worker industry: There is no respect for the profession.
“It has been a long-standing tradition to
not care about the sex worker,” says Veronica Monet, a
certified sex educator and internationally known
sex-worker-rights activist -- and, formerly, a prostitute and
porn star. “The people who are employing you should tell you,
’Here are the safety tips you need to do this job.’ They
should say, ’We care about our employees, and we are here to
protect them.’ Unfortunately we have this attitude about women
who are strippers -- that they are worthless and don’t really
warrant protection.”
That protection is usually better in a strip
club than in a private home, where there are no rules and no
bouncers to clobber a guy if he touches a stripper on the pole.
But in the club, women also face the prospect of being abused by
people who work there. Of the 18 strippers Holsopple talked to
for her survey, two said club owners “forced intercourse” on
them as a condition of employment.
“The whole environment is toxic,” says
Layden, who speaks out against strip clubs. “If you call going
to a place where you’re going to be depressed, stalked, likely
to use cocaine or alcohol as your coping strategy, engage in
activities that cause you to be unable to maintain a marriage,
be pressured to get breast implants, don’t you think it’s
dangerous to have this career?”
PROTECTION
The stripper in the Duke case was working for
an escort agency, stripping to make ends meet. Since the case
came into the public eye, the Rev. Jesse Jackson has stepped in
to pay for the rest of her college education.
There has been no mention of the stripper
coming to the party with a bodyguard -- something most agencies
don’t pay for.
“It’s one of those, ’If you want this,
then you can have it but you have to pay for it,”’ says
Monet. “Then you think, ’Maybe I don’t need it after
all.’ But the responsibility should lie with the employer to
establish a safe environment, invest in their employees and show
their employees some respect.”
In the case of rape, Layden says strippers are
less likely to report the crime because of the
“you-were-asking-for-it mentality.” She also notes that most
strippers were sexually abused as children so they tend to think
the rape was their fault.
“I have a number of patients come in and
say, ’He wanted to have sex, I told him no, and then he had
sex with me,”’ says Layden. “I will say, ’What day did
the rape happen?’ She says ’No, I wasn’t raped. I
shouldn’t have gotten in the car.”’
That sort of thinking may be slowly changing.
There is a growing sex-workers-rights
movement, with organizations like the Sex Workers Outreach
Project and conferences like one in Las Vegas next week, called “Re-visioning
Prostitution Policy: Creating Space for Sex Worker Rights and
Challenging Criminalization.” San Francisco even has a
union for strippers, the Exotic Dancers Alliance. [emphasis
added by desiree]
“It’s about time we say when a sex worker
is raped or murdered, it’s just as important than when any
other woman is raped or murdered,” Monet says.
Whatever the outcome of the Duke case, it
remains to be seen whether the publicity surrounding it will
cause many strippers to change careers. But maybe some will put
some thought into precautions before they go out tonight.
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Megan Scott is an asap reporter based in New
York.
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